Distance Lovin’ Part 4: These Black American men are sick of ya’ll women! Are there better pickings in Brazil?

Back in 2006 Essence Magazine published the article, “Blame it on Rio” which examined the phenomenon of Black men traveling to Brazil to find love and/or sex. Seems that the article provoked some strong responses. On one hand, many black women were offended by the idea that some black men would feel the need to …

Wanna Write?

Since I began sharing the news of my first book with my family members and friends, I've heard several of them say, "That's something I hoped to do some day".  I anticipate that I will hear this regularly as I meet and engage with more people on this writing adventure. I'm convinced that everyone has …

Distance Lovin’ Part 3: Cougars on the prowl for Dark Meat abroad

Just what are people doing in life, huh?  Have you realized just how big and wide this world is out here?  Do you know the types of things people are getting into??? In case you haven't heard, Sex Tourism is alive and well in many parts of the world.  Unfortunately, it often involves young people …

Distance Lovin’ Part 2: Happy Ending Massage – For Women

I'm including this in the Distance Lovin' series because 1) the idea of women paying for sexual pleasure is, to some, a “foreign” idea, (lol! ... nevamind me...)  2) because this topic involves traveling outside one's home or the confines of a relationship for romantic/sexual pleasure, 3) because there are some out there who will …

Distance Lovin’ Part 1: Traveling for Love

Okay, picture this: Your Boo lives in Florida and you live in Illinois. You’re running a successful business in Miami and Boo’s got a great job in Chi-town. Moving in together is not a smart option right now. This is going to be a long-distance love affair. The two of you have decided to spend …